Deer love apples, pears, sweet fruits and berries. They love goat milk and young leaves/shoots/ dandelion leaves. They don't love grains when young. Mine didn't begin to like grains until 12 months or so. Honestly, I just don't think deer are meant to eat so many grains. They do, because they are forced to do so. When mine eats too many grains- she gets huge, clumpy poop. For me that says it all... Hug out to you BamaMom... sounds like you've had a rough week. Be well, all will get better soon.