Rhonda , Regarding your ban from qdma website, Pretty curious isn't it?? You signed on legit and you sent a PRIVATE message intent for only one person directly and asked him to KINDLY remove the post or wording. He changed the title but not the post. The the next day you receive a notice from the forum moderator that your banned??? Currious why would and what reason could they ban you if you did not openly post anything negative or demeaning on their forum. Just private contact with a single individual. Two ways it may have happened , One Singleterry cried and forwarded your request to a moderator and claimed he was being harassed and got banned, Or your conversation was read and possibly screened by a Admin or Mod and they banned. Either way you did nothing wrong and I would look at contacting your State Att General, and see if they have a consumer affairs dept, Also Ga as well. And tell them your story. Also if they are monitoring private messages between two private parties without consent that maybe considered interstate wiretapping.(You in Iowa, He in Texas) See US Code 2511on Interception and Disclosure of ANY WIRE or ORAL communications.